Thought for the day/an area I need to practice a bit more..

DECISIONS

"Stop worrying what other people think. Other people have every right to think whatever they want, and their thoughts really should not be your conscience, nor your inner motivator.
Of course, there are polite and rude ways to do anything. There are ways to disturb people and to avoid disturbing people. We should always try to be sensitive to other people's needs. And there are some things we need to do just to be able to operate as a part of society.
But in the end, you answer only to you and your God. And in some cases to a partner with whom you have decided to share some decisions. But in the end, it comes down to what you think, not what others think."

10 Things I wish I never believed.

Hmm..might not make it to 10 actually.

1. I wish I never believed all the 'You can't do..'s. For some-most-it would be an open invitation to try whatever it was. For me however..I believed them. Still do sometimes. Wish I didn't

2. I wish I never believed what they said about me and XH..the God stuff. "God brought ya'll together". Part of it is I think I twisted it but it did a number on my faith and belief system..as far as that goes. I still struggle however, I'm back to believing there is at least a higher power than myself and.. well, while I may not be religious or a Christian so to speak..I do think of myself as spiritual.

3. I wish I would have never believed all those negatives. I'm worthless, I'll never be loved, so on and so forth. What if I hadn't believed all that? Eh, I did..

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And that's it for now. I know there are more waiting under the surface but that's all I got for now.